Saturday, August 30, 2014

India Part 2

Our third day in India was Avika's Gotcha Day!  Hooray!  I was actually pretty nervous this day- we'd only been waiting for two and a half years.  This is us outside of her orphanage.

This is another shot from the alleyway in front of her orphanage.  There is a crib in the courtyard on the other side of the wall below the opening.  The orphanage takes in children that are left in the crib.

We had the privilege of being the first international adoption from this orphanage.  The Sewa Bharti directors, Avika's social worker, and all the orphanage employees were unbelievably kind and welcoming.  They have a ceremony for each of their adoptions.  They prayed/sang/chanted, and the director gave a little speech and asked us to give speeches.  The three of us were draped with marigolds and showered with flower petals, and then we had the official hand off.

We are so grateful for how well Avika was cared for here.  I imagine they were sad to see her go, but they all seemed genuinely happy for her to join our family and grow up in America.

This is Avika's name in Hindi.  This sign hung over her crib.
 
Her crib were she likely spent most of her time.
 
After saying our final goodbyes and namastes, we had to get to the hospital for her second medical appointment. 
 
After all the excitement of the morning she fell asleep on the long ride back to the hospital.
 
This second Max Med visit was so emotional.  We needed to have them check the TB test they had administered two days earlier and give them the waiver from the embassy.  We initially thought her TB test came back negative, then they told us it was positive.  I was very close to a total melt down as testing positive for TB would mean she couldn't leave the country.  We had to stay and do x-rays which eventually came back negative for TB.  After a nerve-racking couple of hours we got all the necessary paperwork and headed back to the hotel to spend the night with our daughter for the first time!

Saturday, August 23, 2014

India Part 1

Traveling to Delhi to get Avika was an adventure to say the least!  It felt crazy that we were finally traveling to meet our daughter after waiting for two and a half years.  We started this journey with an application to our agency in February of 2012.  Avika was born in April 2012.  We were matched with her in the spring of 2013, and we received word our embassy appointment was scheduled early August 2014.  We bought plane tickets that morning and left the next day!
 
Here we are at the start of our journey in the airport in Durango. Only 24 hours of flights and layovers ahead of us!

On the plane somewhere over Russia?

We got into Delhi late, then woke up early to go to the orphanage to meet Avika!  This is the alley/side street where her orphanage was located...
 
Moments after first meeting her.  She was definately a little leery of us, but allowed us to hold her and try to play a bit.

Unfortunately we had to take her to her first medical appointment right after meeting her for the first time.  We wished we could have spread this out a bit, but we were on a tight schedule.  This is us in the car on the way to Max Med.  She was less than impressed with us!

We were able to make it through her medical without incident, but she did throw up on me in the car on the way back to the hotel.  Quite the introduction...
 
 Day two:  a trip to the embassy to get a form we didn't know we needed, a little shopping and a mendhi session (!), and lunch at a south Indian restaurant (found out I love dhosa masala) near Connaught Place.


In the afternoon we were able to go back to the orphanage and spend more time with Avika.  I think we won her over a little this day.  We got lots of smiles, a couple of hugs, and she seemed sad to see us go at the end of the afternoon!




Avika

 
 
Introducing the newest Bong!  This is our daughter
Avika Ruby Priya Bong.

 
 
 
 

Thursday, July 17, 2014

Three on a Skateboard

Appearing in the 2020 summer Olympics in Tokyo: three person street luge/longboard bobsled.  These guys are going for a gold medal.

 

Take Me Out to the Ballgame

This is a pitcher, not a belly-itcher.
Knocking out a homer...
Matt just finished up another softball season with the Steaming Armadillos.  Still loving playing with these guys, wishing they won more games, but truly enjoying relationships formed on the team.  Go Armadillos!!



Weolcome Home Mommy!

I got a wonderful surprise coming home from trip last weekend!

Yes, the spelling needs a little work, but Matt said they did it all on their own.  It pretty much made me the happiest mom ever.  I had a really really great trip- I got lots of time alone (this really never happens for me so I am always in need of it!), spent time with dear friends I haven't seen in much too long, did some reminiscing in Boulder about my CU days, and went to a college reunion.  It was so much fun to see and catch up with roommates, neighbors, and friends from CU- I'm very grateful to have been part of such a great group of people during my college days.  A giant thanks to Matt for allowing me to indulge while he took care of everything at home.  I couldn't wait to get home to these monkeys, though!

Wednesday, July 16, 2014

Camping with the Webers

Another thing Matt did while I was gone?  He took the kids camping!  Sounds brave, doesn't it? (and a little crazy.)  Thankfully he went with some friends of ours who helped him out.  The kids had the best time ever apparently.  Miles caught his first fish and Delia "slept over" with her friend C in her tent.  So much fun!

Hiking with Pop

Last week I got to take a trip solo so Matt was tasked with entertaining these monkeys while I was gone.  First up was hiking- something fun that I never do with the kids!

Thursday, June 19, 2014

Father's Day '14

Father's Day mini golf fun from this year...
 

 

 
 
 

 



 

Wednesday, June 11, 2014

American Ninja Warriors

We went to Big Bounce last week to kick off our summer.  Isaac and Delia played "American Ninja Warrior" the whole time.  I think it's only a matter of time before the kids are asking Matt to build a warped wall in the back yard.